Lambda Literary Award WINNER 2005
"Marvelous, courageous and above all, thoughtful."
—The Washington Post
"A story of sexual abuse and its seemingly endless halflife–remarkable then, that this isn’t a book about blame, but forgiveness."—Kathryn Harrison
“A subtly rendered and remarkably even-handed journey toward redemption.” —The Philadelphia Inquirer
“Wise and heartbreaking…an astonishing balancing act of a book.”—Body and Soul
“Elevates the confessional to the level of art.” —Michael Cunningham