1. McCall Smith says friendship is at the heart of Precious and Grace and that, “Friendship is one of the greatest of literary themes, but hard to write about. Embarrassment, sentiment, get in the way.” (March 2016, Twitter @McCallSmith) What do you think about this? What other books have you loved with friendship as the primary theme? How does the friendship between the two main characters in those books compare to the friendship between Precious and Grace?
2. Describe Mma Ramotswe’s relationship with other people in the novel. How is it similar or different to her friendship with Grace?
3. This title is different from the titles of other No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency series in length and tone. How is it different and why?
4. Why do you think the author starts off the novel with Mma Makutsi telling some white lies about the detective agency? Why doesn’t Mma Ramotswe reprimand or correct her despite feeling uncomfortable hearing them? What would you have done if you were Mma Ramotswe?
5. How does this tie into Mma Makutsi herself later in the novel criticizing liars and saying, “The country must be full of liars” (p. 98)?
6. Discuss the chapter titles of this book. What does the first one, “A Good Friend Is Like a Hill” mean or refer to? And how about “Trust Your Nose”? Can you think up alternate chapter titles for any of the chapters?
7. Describe the unusual case of Susan Peters. How would you have gone about finding her former nanny? How do you feel about the way the case was resolved? What is the lesson Mma Ramotswe shares at the close of the case?
8. Why does Mma Ramotswe enjoy reminiscing and talking about the past and how it was “the time of cattle; the time of bicycles rather than cars; the time when the arrival of the day’s single plane was an event; the time of politeness and courtesy.” (p. 33)? How do these reminiscences fit in with the themes of the No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency series?
9. Do you agree with the advice of Clovis Anderson, “Be very careful of anything that looks too good to be true. Because if it looks too good to be true, that’s probably because that’s exactly what it is!” (p. 58)? Do you have any examples of this from your own life? What is the importance of Clovis Anderson for Mma Ramotswe? Why does she like and respect him so much?
10. Another theme of this novel is that of seeing the world from another’s perspective. “Tall people could forget that the world might look quite different if you were short; and of course well-off people had a marked tendency to forget how things might look if you were poor. We have to remind ourselves, she thought. We have to remind ourselves how the world looked when viewed from elsewhere” (p. 64). Discuss this theme in terms of the book and the entire series.
11. In concert with seeing from another’s perspective is accepting people who see things differently than you: “Once you understood that, then you could accept the people themselves as they were and not try to change them. What was even more important, perhaps, was that you could love those people who looked at things so differently, because you realized that they were not trying to make life hard for you by being what they were, but were simply doing their best” (p. 90). How do these thoughts Mma Ramotswe is contemplating connect with Charlie and with the events in the book? How does it help her solve Susan’s case?
12. What is the issue with Mr. Polopetsi in this novel? How does it get resolved?
13. “Nothing was cheap, she thought, even the things that were said to be free. Love itself was not cheap . . . Freedom was not cheap—its price tag was watchfulness and courage. Even fresh air, the air we breathed each day, had its price tag, it seemed” (p. 78). Discuss this quote and talk about whether or not you agree with it. How does it relate to Mr. J.L.B. Matekoni and Mma Ramotswe? How does it relate to your life?
14. What do you think of the Bishop’s sermon on forgiveness and retribution? What is his message? What does he mean by saying “when we punish somebody, we are often just punishing ourselves” (p. 212)?
15. Comment on Mma Ramotswe’s thoughts on forgiveness at the end of the book, “Anger, and its close cousin revenge, had come off second best to forgiveness and to the realization that current unhappiness is not always helped by delving into the past, but can be dealt with by other, more productive means” (p. 226).
16. What have you learned, gained or taken away from reading this book? What do you think Alexander McCall Smith wants to share by writing these books? What would you want to share and write about if you wrote a book?