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Southern Lady Code

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Southern Lady Code by Helen Ellis
Apr 16, 2019 | 224 Pages
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“Thank you Helen Ellis for writing down the Southern Lady Code so that others may learn. As a Southern Lady myself, I can not only confirm the veracity of the facts, I can tell you the book made me laugh like a hyena. A true Southern Lady loves anything that is both funny and profound, which this book is, so I loved it.” —Ann Patchett 
“Helen Ellis’s Southern Lady Code lives between Fannie Flagg’s Fried Green Tomatoes and Sloane Crosley’s I Was Told There’d Be Cake. Ellis’s irreverent doses of humor are life lessons celebrating colloquial expressions, regional specialties and offering delightful commentary on everything from what should be served at cocktail parties to what should occur behind closed doors.” —A.M. Homes
“Helen Ellis is hilarious, brilliant, and utterly mad. Southern Lady Code will make you a better woman or a better man — once you have cleaned up the coffee you spit through your nose from laughing so hard. I loved this book: every essay and every word.” —Chris Bohjalian
“Helen Ellis’s brilliant voice shines in this witty, weird, and utterly wonderful essay collection—a glitter bomb of delights. From bringing foam fingers into the bedroom to trying pot for the first time in your forties, there’s something for everyone in Southern Lady Code. Reading this feels like settling into a comfy couch and having a martini (or three) with your most hilarious friend.” —Cristina Alger
“That Helen Ellis is at it again. Her brilliant essays are hotter than a five alarm Memphis BBQ, dirtier than a Jackson, Mississippi martini, sweeter than Mamaw’s Alabama chess pie, and more poignant than the prom corsage you pressed in your family Bible. Helen’s observations are witty, wise, elegant and down home, sometimes all at once. Savor like pimento cheese on crackers. Lucky us, her essays don’t have a shelf life.” —Adriana Trigiani

“Helen Ellis is so funny it causes me physical pain. I just want to sop this book up with a biscuit.” —Samantha Irby, New York Times bestselling author of We Are Never Meeting in Real Life

“Ellis’s sense of humor and honesty never fail to charm.” –Thomas Gebremedhin, Wall Street Journal Magazine

“With a voice that’s equal parts Nora Ephron and David Sedaris, this Alabama-raised, NYC-honed author should be your new woman crush. In these 23 essays, Ellis riffs on marriage and manners, spiral-sliced hams and the art of being a Southern Lady. It’s full of piss and vinegar and hilarious one-liners that beg to be read aloud. Best of all, Ellisa woman of spiky, unrepentant complexity—makes the case for living according to no one’s rules buty our own.” —Catherine Hong, Family Circle

“A vibrant storyteller with a penchant for the perverse, Ellis pivots… to nonfiction in this ribald collection of essays on manners, morals, and marriage, all colored by her off-kilter Alabama upbringing… Ellis’s sharp eye for pop-culture preoccupations inspires smart-mouthed provocations… Ellis is a strong, vivid writer—and this book is gut-busting funny.” —Publishers Weekly 

“Ellis is a hoot and a half, which, as she might say, is Southern Lady Code for ‘laughing ’til the tears flow’ funny. In nearly two-dozen essays filled with belly laughs and bits of hard-won wisdom, Ellis’ self-deprecating wit and tongue-in-cheek charm provide the perfect antidote to bad-hair, or bad-news, days.” Booklist

“By turns lighthearted and heart-wrenching… Reminiscent of each character from the TV sitcom Designing Women, Ellis’s wonderfully amusing writing is hard to put down, and this book is no exception.” Library Journal, starred review

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