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Let's F*cking Date
Hardcover
$30.00
Published on Sep 22, 2026 | 368 Pages
“A refreshingly honest approach to modern dating . . . Serena Kerrigan is the big sister you never had, and this book is the friend who grabs your hand and tells you like it is. Consider this your reminder to raise your standards.”—Paige DeSorbo, New York Times bestselling author of How to Giggle
From the content creator, entrepreneur, and voice that over a million women swear by comes the only dating book that will give you a hug and a slap in the face.
“I think I just need to be more chill.” “He said he didn’t want commitment and then got a girlfriend two months later.” “I’m running out of time.” “Everyone I know is engaged and I can’t get a second date.”
If you’ve said any of these to your therapist, your group chat, or yourself at 1 AM, this book is for you.
Let’s F*cking Date is the dating bible for women who want love, have standards, and are done apologizing for either. With laugh-out-loud humor and hard-won wisdom from years of getting it wrong, Serena Kerrigan covers everything from building an unshakeable foundation on your own to making love actually last.
This isn’t another “just manifest the right person” book. It gives you real tools:
• The List: separate your non-negotiables from your ego and stop chasing the wrong thing.
• The 3P Theory: categorize every date as Potential, Practice, or Plot (so you stop overinvesting in Plot).
• The Roster: date multiple people without losing your mind or your morals.
• The F*ck No Funeral: a ritual for burying the situationship you should’ve ended three months ago.
• The Glue: what actually holds a relationship together when the newness fades (and you’re arguing about the thermostat).
You’re already the prize. Now act like it.
From the content creator, entrepreneur, and voice that over a million women swear by comes the only dating book that will give you a hug and a slap in the face.
“I think I just need to be more chill.” “He said he didn’t want commitment and then got a girlfriend two months later.” “I’m running out of time.” “Everyone I know is engaged and I can’t get a second date.”
If you’ve said any of these to your therapist, your group chat, or yourself at 1 AM, this book is for you.
Let’s F*cking Date is the dating bible for women who want love, have standards, and are done apologizing for either. With laugh-out-loud humor and hard-won wisdom from years of getting it wrong, Serena Kerrigan covers everything from building an unshakeable foundation on your own to making love actually last.
This isn’t another “just manifest the right person” book. It gives you real tools:
• The List: separate your non-negotiables from your ego and stop chasing the wrong thing.
• The 3P Theory: categorize every date as Potential, Practice, or Plot (so you stop overinvesting in Plot).
• The Roster: date multiple people without losing your mind or your morals.
• The F*ck No Funeral: a ritual for burying the situationship you should’ve ended three months ago.
• The Glue: what actually holds a relationship together when the newness fades (and you’re arguing about the thermostat).
You’re already the prize. Now act like it.
Author
Serena Kerrigan
Serena Kerrigan—known to most as SFK—is the founder of Let’s F*cking Date, which started as a digital series and turned into a bestselling card game franchise, sold-out live shows, and a global community of over a million people. She is a Duke University graduate, a Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, and the creator and star of the Peacock series Older, Hotter, Wiser. This is her first book. She lives in New York with her mini dachshund, Pancho.
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