Slow Sex Secrets: Lessons from the Master Masseur

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Reviewed by Kai-Ming Cha
“Good sex is the best way to make a woman even more beautiful,” says Adam Tokunaga in his book, Slow Sex Secrets, equal parts mating manual, pep-talk and bedroom boot-camp. “And as a man, it is your mission to flip the switch on your partner’s internal mechanism which brings out that beauty.” Japan’s self-professed sexpert and practiced tactician of the erotic massage suggests one simple thing that will recharge any couple’s sex life and bring out that inner beauty: Slow it down.
Tokunaga, who has his own sex school in Japan called “Adam,” offers a handful of techniques for making any willing man into a talented lover. His most sage advice–and the key to differentiate “slow” from “ordinary”–is to approach sex with patience. Tokunaga focuses on touch and trust while encouraging men to forgo the quickie–or “junk sex” as he describes it: “male-focused, orgasm-obsessed, 20-minute sex”–for the sake of their partner’s sexual satisfaction.
Slow Sex Secrets’s techniques are useful and immediately applicable, and Tokugawa’s knowledge of the female body shows that he’s intimately versed in the language of women. He’s at his best when demystifying the female psyche, directly connecting it with the female form. The book is largely for the uninitiated, and Tokugawa’s start-with-the-basics approach is geared more toward the Jonas brothers than Colin Farrell. But Slow Sex Secrets will help you unlock the secrets to the female anatomy. Read it: She’ll thank you."