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At the Broken Places by Mary Collins and Donald Collins
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At the Broken Places by Mary Collins and Donald Collins
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Apr 25, 2017 | ISBN 9780807088357

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“[An] affecting joint memoir…The book is an altogether invaluable and accessible addition to the growing body of transgender literature.”

“A practical resource guide for families who have a transgender child in the mix.”
Bay Area Reporter

“The book is frank, informative, and makes an argument not necessarily for radical acceptance but the simple act of sitting down and having a conversation.”
—Nina MacLaughlin, The Boston Globe

“When one person in the family transitions, everyone transitions. At the Broken Places is a profoundly vulnerable and brave account of a son struggling to be seen by his mother, and a mother learning to see her child as he sees himself. A necessary and beautiful book.”
—Jill Soloway, creator of Transparent

“This is the best, most thorough narrative of trans experience I’ve read: mind, body, and soul. The two conflicting points of view expand the reader’s consciousness, placing us smack dab in the middle of the heart of it all. And the heart of it all is the model of two people who, despite deep disagreements, maintain love and respect for one another.”
—Kate Bornstein, author of A Queer and Pleasant Danger and Gender Outlaw

“An insightful resource for families, educators, and mentors, At the Broken Places illuminates the daily stress of figuring out where one fits, and how to get the world to see you as you see yourself.”
—Robin McHaelen, executive director, True Colors: Sexual Minority Youth and Family Services

Table Of Contents

Authors’ Notes


Pronouns and Body Parts
SON: Who Wears the Pants?
MOTHER: Mismatch

Endings and Beginnings
MOTHER: Mapping Modern Grief
SON: Birds of Spring

Sharing our Story with Others
SON: Donald Has Something He Would Like to Tell the Class
MOTHER: Disclosure

MOTHER: Right(s)
SON: Hidden Fees

A Story Exchange
Parent Story Exchange
Transgender Youth and Professionals Story Exchange

Donald’s Reading List



A Note from the Series Editor

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