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The Kiss Quotient Reader’s Guide

By Helen Hoang

The Kiss Quotient by Helen Hoang

READERS GUIDE

   1. Prior to reading this book, how would you have imagined an autistic woman? How does Stella compare to this vision?
   2. Stella was surprised when she heard her coworker Philip James had been asked out by their new intern. When it comes to heterosexual relationships, do you think men should be the initiators? What does it say about a woman if she asks out a man?
   3. Does it surprise you to see an autistic person exploring a sexual relationship? If so, why?
   4. With regards to autism, people are divided between using person-first language (i.e. “person with autism”) and identity-first language (i.e. “autistic person”). One of the main arguments for person-first language is that it separates a person from their mental disorders. Many autistic people, on the other hand, prefer identity-first language because they believe autism is an intrinsic part of who they are and have no wish for a “cure.” Which do you think is right? Do you think it can depend on each person’s individual circumstances and preferences? How did you feel when Stella tried to make herself fresh and fantastic? Why did you feel that way?
   5. What do you think of a man with Michael’s Friday night profession? How does that compare to your impression of a woman with that profession? If gender makes a difference, why is that?
   6. How does Michael’s daytime profession affect his attractiveness?
   7. Throughout the book, Michael worries he’s inherited his father’s “badness,” that it was passed down in his blood. Do you think this is illogical? Are you able to empathize with him? If so, how?
   8. Is love alone enough? Can people with different cultures, education levels, and wealth be together in the long run? How can they make it work?
 
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