“When I finished this book, I experienced many different emotions at once. I felt deeply unsettled, filled with both melancholy and triumph, mixed with feelings of admiration and envy for the beautiful writing and the howitzer power of the details, and with the sense that I’d finally read the sports story I’ve been waiting for my whole life. I loved this book, clearly, but more important, I get it. How this was a story Nick Paumgarten must tell, a story he’d been preparing, byline by byline, to write for his whole life. I understood his lofty ambitions, how he wanted to create a lush tapestry in which his teammates — in which he and his father and his sons — could strive towards the only real job for a man: to take what we inherited and pass on the good, and try to understand and prune the bad, and to find our place on a wheel that is turning and can’t slow down. To know ourselves before we return to dust. In the end his outsized ambitions are matched, then surpassed, by the way the book lingers emotionally after the last sentence like the echoes of a siren or train horn in an empty midnight hockey barn.” — Wright Thompson, bestselling author of The Barn and senior writer at ESPN
“Nick Paumgarten’s marvelous memoir The Intangibles is itself filled with so many intangibles that they are impossible to catalogue. There is the charm, the wit, the poignant coming-of-age story, the laugh-out-loud lines, the mad beer-league hockey scenes, the violence, the grace, the messiness of life, the insights into parenthood, the moments of transcendence. What they all add up to is something tangible: one of the best books I’ve read this year, or any other.” — David Grann, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Wager and Killers of the Flower Moon
“Just ridiculously good. Line for line, the richest, funniest book I’ve read in years. Only Nick Paumgarten could turn beer league hockey into spun gold. It’s the examined life on skates. Friendships so deep and unlikely, all the unspoken codes, the writer’s raw honesty with himself, the vestigial violence between grown men. I did not want it to end.” — William Finnegan, Pulitzer-Prize winning author of Barbarian Days
“Two of the greatest sports books of all time are Ken Dryden’s elegant, elegiac The Game and Jim Bouton’s raucous, irreverent Game Four. The Intangibles is their concussed offspring — brilliantly written, hilarious, insightful, unsparing, humane, moving in the extreme. Did I say sports book? This is simply a great book, one that will stay with me.” — Louisa Thomas, staff writer at The New Yorker
“I don’t care one bit about hockey, and yet I couldn’t put this book down and didn’t want it to end. Nick Paumgarten has written the rare book about men that is also, secretly, a book about love: the strange, tender, often ridiculous ways men love each other and their sons. The Intangibles is a book to be read and savored by everyone.” — Susan Orlean, New York Times bestselling author of Joyride