Becoming Baba

One of the Washington Post‘s 10 Noteworthy Books of July and August • One of Lit Hub’s Most Anticipated Books of 2025 • One of BookRiot’s Best Nonfiction Books of July

“Guaranteed to steal your heart, Becoming Baba is a profound meditation on what it means to build a self and a family in an often unwelcoming land. Ismail has written an American Odyssey.” —Junot Díaz, Pulitzer Prize winner and author of This Is How You Lose Her

“Aymann Ismail is one of the most insightful reporters of his generation. In this beautiful memoir, he uses his powers of perception to examine his own life—as a Muslim growing up in the United States, and as son, husband and father struggling to be as true to his loved ones as he is to himself. Few books deliver on their promise to introduce you to a new world, but Becoming Baba does so on every page, making old questions new again: What does it mean to be American? What does it mean to be a good person? What does it mean to have faith? Ismail —funny, tender-hearted, and relentlessly honest—makes finding the answers a total pleasure.” —Suzy Hansen, author of Notes on a Foreign Country: An American Abroad in a Post-American World

“A soulful and entertaining love letter to Ismail’s hometown—now I get why he is so obsessed with Newark.” —Nicolas Heller (@newyorknico)

“A delight, told with great candor and wisdom…feels universal….At times, I found myself chuckling and then, later, nodding in agreement as Aymann brilliantly chronicles the challenges of finding your faith and finding your footing as a parent.” —Asma Khalid, White House correspondent for NPR and co-host of the NPR Politics Podcast

“An uncommonly honest and moving book about family life and fatherhood. Aymann Ismail deeply considers what kind of father he wants to be, and chronicles his attempts to enact that vision, his failures, and his successes. Becoming Baba beautifully lays out crucial questions about manhood, parenting, and faith, and helps readers understand why those questions are important to everyone.” —Dan Kois, award-winning journalist and author of How To Be a Family and Hampton Heights

“[Ismail’s] memoir thoughtfully examines the challenges of preserving faith….His storytelling balances humor with reflection….A warm and insightful exploration of how faith sustains and evolves across generations.” —Kirkus Reviews

“Tender….Lucid and openhearted, this inquiry into what makes a good life will resonate with readers of all faiths.” —Publishers Weekly

“Candid, with moments of humor, poignancy, and soul-searching depth, Becoming Baba is an engaging memoir about a man’s winding path to maturity, enlightenment, and self-discovery.” —Booklist

“Written with humor and affection, Becoming Baba gives the reader a unique insight into the struggle facing many Muslim Americans as they reconcile their faith with American culture…. Ismail has a refreshing humility….It is this humility and his desire to be a good husband and baba that enable Ismail to forgive himself, his mother and, especially, his father.” —BookPage

“A Muslim American’s search for love, faith, and family, Aymann Ismail’s Becoming Baba will grab your heart and feed your soul.” —Moustafa Bayoumi

“Aymann charts new territory with his brilliant and vulnerable insight into Becoming Baba. More than just becoming a dad—Becoming Baba is a rare look into the journey of coming into the enigma of our fathers. Aymann is a professional Truth Teller. Becoming Baba is his most honest work yet.” —Noor Tagouri, journalist, founder: At Your Service

“Aymann delivers an unflinchingly honest coming-of-age memoir that is equal parts personal and universal. He tells a story of family, identity, and the messy—but beautiful—journey that is learning to make peace with where you come from, all the while widening the lens on what it means to a young, American, Muslim father today.” —Malika Bilal, senior presenter at Al Jazeera

“An absolute pleasure to read. What does it mean to be a Muslim man in America today? In the face of rising Islamophobia and an era of increased isolation among men, how does one find and build lasting community and genuine connection? In Becoming Baba, Ismail thoughtfully interrogates his relationship with masculinity, faith, and culture, taking us on a journey as friend, son, husband, and father with both compassion and vulnerability.” —Prachi Gupta, author of They Called Us Exceptional

“Becoming Baba is a beautiful, poignant, and timely read. Aymann Ismail elegantly captures the nuances of being a Muslim, an immigrant, and a father in America. This is a critical book for our time.” —Zainab Salbi, humanitarian and author of Between Two Worlds: Escape From Tyranny: Growing Up in the Shadow of Saddam and Freedom Is an Inside Job

“A love letter to the American dream—complete with all its frustrations, pains and joys. Ayman shares the push and pull that so many immigrant families face between settling in the United States while still honoring family and religious traditions, and he so with honesty and wit…an entertaining journey to becoming Baba.” —Dean Obeidallah, host of Sirius XM’s The Dean Obeidallah Show

“This book had me craving my mom’s cooking from the moment I picked it up. A unique and inspired journey through a man’s life as he finds himself in the people closest to him.” —Kareem Rahma, host of SubwayTakes and a founder of Nameless Network

“Stories are what heal us and give meaning to our experiences. Never has it been more important to learn about each other’s lives and find the ways our joy, safety, and growth are all interconnected. Aymann’s story isn’t just about faith and family— it’s about what it means to be fully human, here and now. In a time of apathy, destruction, and dehumanization, Becoming Baba will soothe your soul and remind you that it is a beautiful act of resilience to stay alive.” — Jezz Chung, author of This Way to Change