“In her memoir, Nice Girls Don’t Win, [Parvati] Shallow, known for her mastery of the unbothered cool-girl archetype, reveals her messy interior. From her childhood in a controlling, new age commune to her messy divorce from a fellow Survivor contestant, she chronicles her impulse to put herself in tough situations, to keep ‘surviving.’”—Bustle
“Nice Girls Don’t Win is a bold book, a chronicle of survival, the obstacles that hold you back, and the dreams that usher you forward. It is also a fascinating glimpse into the life of a reality television icon millions of people have gotten to know over the past twenty-five years.”—Roxane Gay, on her Substack The Audacity
“Parvati Shallow may have been shunted into a ‘villain’ narrative during her time on Survivor, but now she’s reclaiming and telling her own story. From the very first pages of Nice Girls Don’t Win . . . the reality TV star is almost discomfitingly honest about her past.”—them, “Survivor Star Parvati Shallow on Being ‘Fully Queer,’ Divorce, and Embracing Villainy”
“Nice Girls Don’t Win is a bible for badass women. Smart, fearless, bold, and intimate, Parvati Shallow’s writing is a revelation and a rallying cry.”—Sarah Michelle Gellar, actor and star of Buffy the Vampire Slayer
“Parvati Shallow is the greatest player in Survivor history, but her book is not just for fans of reality TV. It’s a gripping and liberating read for anyone who’s ever been so desperate to please others that they’ve lost sight of themselves.”—Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Hidden Potential and Think Again
“Survivor legend and gay icon, Parvati Shallow has won my heart all over again. This memoir blew me away.”—Bowen Yang, SNL cast member and co-host of Las Culturistas
“Nice Girls Don’t Win is just like the woman who wrote it: honest, edgy, and irresistible.”—Matt Rogers, co-host of Las Culturistas
“ A must-read for anyone looking to find their own path to healing and self-acceptance.”—Tara Schuster, author of Glow in the F*cking Dark
“Shocking, insightful, and compulsively readable, this book is for every woman who has been called a villain for having the audacity to not just survive but to win on her own terms.” —Lyz Lenz, New York Times bestselling author of This American Ex-Wife
“Shallow’s bravery on the page is raw and revelatory. At its core, this is a book about letting go: the most courageous act of all. I’m in awe.”—Rebecca Woolf, author of All of This: A Memoir of Death and Desire
“Parvati Shallow is a glorious concoction of fluidity. She manages to be endearing but ensnaring, aloof yet vulnerable, sugar and spice. I can’t wait to see what else she has in store for us.”—Alan Cumming, actor and host of Peacock’s The Traitors
“Survivor champions all have some sort of intangible ‘it factor,’ and out of those, there is a handful that stand above the rest.”—Joe Manganiello, actor and host of Deal or No Deal: Island
“Parvati proves that the will and strength that led her to her Survivor victory was anything but a fluke, but rather a marker in a journey toward self-enlightenment.”—Evan Ross Katz, entertainment journalist
“Shallow is a charming, candid narrator, dispensing behind-the-scenes Survivor tidbits and sturdy self-love advice with equal aplomb. This is a treat for reality TV fans.”—Publishers Weekly
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