The Real Ones

“Maya Rupert offers a frontline look at the ways that dominant society shapes Black identities, and how we all suffer when we can’t be our true authentic selves. The Real Ones is necessary reading for anyone navigating workplaces, politics, or systems not set up for all of us.”
—Heather McGhee, New York Times bestselling author of The Sum of Us

“Full of candor and expertise, this is such an interesting perspective on the elusive privilege of “authenticity” that’s relevant to any context but especially pertinent in this moment of media and politics.”
—Meena Harris, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Ambitious Girl

“When I’m mad, confused, or depressed about American politics, Maya Rupert is the person I call. She understands the mysterious world of politics and culture as well as anyone I’ve ever met and she never holds back the truth. The Real Ones is game-changing and brain-changing. This book will change the way you see politics, pop culture, and yourself.”
—Hank Green, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller An Absolutely Remarkable Thing

“In her revelatory book, Maya Rupert puts insightful words to the unsettling feeling too many underrepresented people know, of feeling trapped by coded expectations. Deeply validating and beautifully reflective, The Real Ones shows us a path forward to create communities that are more honest and more inclusive of our whole selves, as ultimately a more equitable society is a more successful one.”
—Donna Brazile, former Chairwoman of the Democratic National Committee and New York Times bestselling author of Hacks

“Maya Rupert captures, with unflinching honesty and grace, the Black professionals’ struggle to have both performance and presence in not only work spaces but all spaces—as authenticity can be the very thing that many cannot fully access. The Real Ones so eloquently puts a name to, and gives language to the experience—and her book offers an essential path forward to shifting the narrative.”
—Judge Victoria Pratt, retired Chief Judge, former Rutgers University professor, and author of The Power of Dignity

“Maya Rupert’s The Real Ones is a MUST read for leaders who want to create more authenticity in today’s world. Rupert does a fantastic job breaking down the authenticity paradox, which show how being “real” is not the same for everyone. The writing is smart, witty, and deeply accessible, and shows us how we can dismantle the myths behind what “authenticity” truly means.”
—John Wang, author of Big Asian Energy

“A timely and provocative study about the hidden gatekeeping power of authenticity.”
—Kirkus

“[A] perceptive debut… Sharing examples from pop culture, politics, and her own life, Rupert shows how authenticity is a concept used to gatekeep or trip up people with marginalized identities.”
—Publishers Weekly

“A thought-provoking examination of the subjective nature of authenticity. Recommended for readers interested in racial justice in politics and pop culture.”
—Rebekah Kati, Library Journal