Leave Your Mess at Home

A Most Anticipated Book of 2026: SheReads

“I already know Leave Your Mess at Home will be one of my (and your?) favorite books of 2026—it’s such a warm, smart, hilarious, delicious, riveting messed-up-adult-siblings novel and I totally loved it.”—Curtis Sittenfeld, NYT bestselling author of Romantic Comedy

“Tolani Akinola is a gifted, powerful new voice in American fiction. Her writing is sharp and wonderfully textured—capturing the nuances and complexities and, yes, messiness of the relationships within one immigrant family, in every permutation. There are multiple messes in Leave Your Mess At Home; I loved reading about every one of them. This is a novel that captures the reality of our imperfect ways of loving—and reminds us that love still matters.” —Rachel Khong, New York Times bestselling author of Real Americans

“Leave Your Mess at Home is a shimmering, consuming, exuberant debut that is just bursting with life. Tolani Akinola is a born storyteller.”—Jenny Jackson, New York Times bestselling author of Pineapple Street

“Leave Your Mess At Home has all the long-buried secrets, simmering rivalries, and siblings failing at adulthood you could want from a family drama. It has all the love, sex, and scandal you could ask from a page-turner. It’s full of smart, generous, timely exploration of issues of immigration, race, class, violence, gender, sexuality, social media, generational dynamics…this book covers a lot of impressive ground. In short, whatever you love in a novel, you’ll find it in this one. Tolani Akinola’s debut has it all.”—Laurie Frankel, New York Times bestselling author of This Is How It Always Is and Family, Family

“What a thrill to read a novel so alive. I tore through it, laughing out loud, aching for the Longe siblings as they unraveled, rooting for them like they were mine. Tolani Akinola writes family estrangement with such honesty and insight, capturing the ways we push away the people we love to protect ourselves, yet still reach back for them. Leave Your Mess at Home is vibrant, incisive, and hilarious, a truly remarkable debut.” —Essie Chambers, bestselling author of Swift River

“There’s more than one way to hold family shame and the Longe siblings prove that in Tolani Akinola’s wise, funny, and engrossing debut. This is the kind of book I’m always hoping to find in the bookstore. Funny, insightful, and full of drama that had me torn between racing to the end and savoring every sentence. I was charmed by the Longe siblings, even as they broke each other’s hearts.”—Aisha Muharrar, author of Loved One

“In Leave Your Mess At Home, all hell breaks hilariously and heartbreakingly loose for the Longe family before the healing finally crawls in. Funny, fraught, and incredibly relatable, this one is for you—for every one of us. Familial estrangement, the trials and tribulations of assimilation, devious deacons, a mother’s betrayal, the pain of complicity, the costs of perfectionism, the relief of reconciliation, whatever your jam, you will find it in this novel.”—Chinelo Okparanta, author of Under the Udala Trees and Harry Sylvester Bird

“Eldest daughter syndrome meets the social media era with a twist on a lovely Chicago bridge.”—HelloBeautiful