Cammy Sitting Shiva

Praise for Cammy Sitting Shiva:
“A poignant, often humorous novel about learning through loss.”
—Foreword Reviews

“Filled with delight­ful char­ac­ters, the dark­ly fun­ny and beau­ti­ful­ly com­pas­sion­ate Cam­my Sit­ting Shi­va is a reflec­tion on who you are, and who you want to be.”
—Jewish Book Council

“A solid debut novel that speaks to the complex nature of grief and religious practice—and how some may lament without observing ritualized traditions.”
—Hadassah Magazine

“An eloquent prose storytelling style that has created a story that rises to an impressive level of literary excellence.”
—Midwest Book Review

“Wry humor, millennial charm, and New Jersey flavor make the messiness of grief real and relatable in this rollicking debut.”
—Beth Kander, USA Today bestselling author of I Made It Out of Clay

“In the time-honored Jewish tradition of navigating grief with humor, Cammy Sitting Shiva is a memorable gift of a debut. Cary Gitter so beautifully delivers all the potent heartache and healing we love in a homecoming novel—infusing it with an inimitable brand of tristate area flavor and signature wit.”
—Courtney Preiss, USA Today bestselling author of Welcome Home, Caroline Kline

“Cammy Sitting Shiva is a joy. This is surprising because Cary Gitter’s heart-wrenching novel has death at its center. But what could be more Jewish than coping with tragedy through laughter? In his nostalgic, ten-day fever dream, Gitter has written the definitive handbook on bereavement. And when no one was looking, he plumbed the depths of the loneliest place on the planet—the midst of a crowd.”
—Rachel Robbins, author of The Sound of a Thousand Stars

“Cammy Sitting Shiva portrays that psychic space where longing, humor, rebellion, nostalgia, and hurt all meet after the greatest losses of our lives, undecided if they are our allies or adversaries. This novel is a guide to giving yourself grace when it’s too hard to feel it all, a love letter to the colorful cast of characters in any Jersey hometown, and unequivocal permission to double down on your dreams, reinvent yourself, or both in the second coming-of-age era of your early thirties, when you are in fact just getting started.”
—Katie Runde, author of The Shore

“Cary Gitter is a fantastic talent, his prose reminiscent of J. D. Salinger coupled with the wry wit of Sara Goodman Confino. His writing is nothing short of pure magic, and his cast of quirky, yet relatable characters will have readers laughing from the first page until the last. Gitter’s path toward stardom is clearly set, and I eagerly await to read his next novel!”
—Heidi Shertok, author of Unorthodox Love

“An acerbic, yet tender, portrait of the complexities of grief, family, and New Jersey. Keenly drawn and sharply funny, Cammy Sitting Shiva is a joy to read.”
—Amy Feltman, author of All the Things We Don’t Talk About

“Loss is hard, but actually growing up is harder. A coming of age story full of complicated grief, all sorts of love, and a few hoagies, Cammy Sitting Shiva delights the reader as it buttresses our flawed heroine to sweet redemption. This debut novel is for anyone who reached adulthood, looked around and thought there just has to be more coming. It’s an Olde English toast to The Garden State. Cheers to Cary Gitter for nailing the realities of nearing 30, a time when you realize how much more there still is to learn, do, and thankfully, enjoy.”
—Elizabeth Topp, author of City People