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Nina Here Nor There Reader’s Guide

By Nick Krieger

Nina Here Nor There by Nick Krieger


Questions for book clubs, classrooms, and group discussions
1. What did you know about transgender people before reading this book? How has your perspective changed? Did reading this book make you think about your own body, gender, and identity? In what ways?
2. How do you feel about the way Nina treats her parents? How about the way they treat her? How would you react if your child was transgender?
3. What role does Ramona play in Nina’s journey?
4. How do you envision gender—a binary, spectrum, galaxy…?
5. What are some of the benefits to our culture of gender? Some of the downfalls? How does the binary (man/woman) system help you? Hurt you?
6. How do you relate to Nina’s experience? In what ways is her story universal? Specific?
7. In what parts of your life do you feel you are “privileged”? Have your privileges changed over time? Has this impacted your worldview?
8. How is this book similar to other memoirs about gender? How is it unique?
9. How do the diagnosis of Gender Identity Disorder and its classification as a mental illness affect trans people?
10. What do you see as the main challenges for trans people in our society? Are these covered in the book, or are these from other sources and experiences?
11. What did you learn through The Boys? How are their gender expressions and decisions similar? Different?
12. Where do lesbian and transmasculine (trans people on the male side of the spectrum like The Boys) communities overlap? Where is there friction?
13. What defines “women’s spaces” and in what cases, instances, or places should transmasculine people be included? Excluded?
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