What We’re Reading for National Autism Awareness Month

For every visibly Autistic person you meet, there are countless “masked” Autistic people who pass as neurotypical. Masking is a common coping mechanism in which Autistic people hide their identifiably Autistic traits in order to fit in with societal normal, adopting a superficial personality at the expense of their mental health. Here is a deep dive into the spectrum of Autistic experience and the phenomenon of masked Autism, giving individuals the tools to safely uncover their true selves while broadening society’s narrow understanding of neurodiversity.

Political journalist Ron Fournier writes, “A parent’s love is unconditional. A parent’s satisfaction comes with caveats. This is an important distinction: You love your kids no matter what, but you expect them to be something—smart or popular or successful […]” Fournier’s narrative is one of a father coming to terms with those expectations as he raises a son with Asperger’s. Tyler, a whip-smart and quirky boy, joins his father on road trips criss-crossing the country (meeting not one, but two Presidents in the process), and along the way, Fournier identifies that its his own ego that is getting in the way of a real relationship with his son. This honest and heartfelt memoir is a must-read for every parent.

An instruction manual for life, love, and relationships by a brilliant young scientist whose Asperger’s syndrome allows her—and us—to see ourselves in a different way. Pang’s unique perspective of the world tells us so much about ourselves—who we are and why we do the things we do—and is a fascinating guide to living a happier and more connected life.

This bestselling-novel has seen great success on Broadway after it was adapted for the stage in 2014. Haddon’s fifteen-year-old main character Christopher John Francis Boone knows all of the world’s capitals and prime numbers up to 7,057 but can’t stand to be touched and hates the color yellow. His well-ordered life goes off the rails when his neighbor’s dog is murdered, but Christopher sets off to solve the mystery, using—of course—logic.

In this heartfelt and powerfully affecting coming-of-age story, Frankie, a neurodivergent 7th grader is determined to find her missing best friend before it’s too late. A powerful story of friendship, sisters, and forgiveness, Tornado Brain is an achingly honest portrait of a young girl trying to find space to be herself. Inspired by her own neurodiverse child, Cat Patrick writes with authenticity and sincerity in her depiction of Frankie in what is ultimately a love letter to neurodiverse children everywhere.

This unique book truly shines a light on what goes on inside an autistic brain; author Naoki Higashida was thirteen when he painstakingly penned this book—a collection of answers to frequently asked questions about autism, like “Why do people with Autism talk so loudly and weirdly?” and “Why don’t you make eye contact when you speak?” Brought to English translation by David Mitchell (Cloud Atlas, The Bone Clocks) and his wife, this disarmingly honest read is illuminating and beautifully written.

In The Scenic Route, Leigh Merryday Porch offers insight into how parents of children with autism can redefine hope in a world that often has a narrow view of what hope is supposed to look like for their kids. She offers readers a road map for helping our children thrive while still taking the time to stop and enjoy the beauty in life’s unforeseen detours.

ABC Correspondent John Donvan and news producer Caren Zucker share more than veteran journalism careers; they each have a connection to autism. Caren’s son Mickey was diagnosed in 1996 and John’s brother-in-law grew up with the disease in Israel in a time before it was acknowledged or widely understood. The two have teamed up again, this time as authors, to pen the history of autism, beginning with the first child ever diagnosed and spanning the years of work by pioneering doctors and lawyers, as well as social misconceptions that once called for institutionalizing autistic children. Donvan and Zucker’s extensive research creates a new understanding of autism: as difference rather than disability.

This emotional debut novel centers on the relationship between a determined mother named Piper, her autistic son, and her distant father, who recently suffered a detrimental heart-attack. The book documents the transformation of Piper’s relationship with her father over time, from abuse to detachment, and then dependency later in life. It also chronicles how her autistic son, Fred, tries to find his place in all of the craziness. Flying at Night gives a voice to Fred, shows just how strong a mother of an autistic child has to be, and demonstrates that love can develop in even the most unexpected places, between the most unexpected people.

In Fall Down 7 Times Get Up 8, the author of The Reason I Jump shares his thoughts and experiences as a young man living each day with severe autism. By sharing his story he aims to foster a better understanding of autism and to encourage society to see people with disabilities as people, not as problems. Both moving and of practical use, this book opens a window into the mind of an inspiring young man who meets every challenge with tenacity and good humor. However often he falls down, he always gets back up.

Temple Grandin is an icon in the world of autism because she broke through boundaries to make herself, and others like her, visible for the first time. Temple was a child with autism in a world that didn’t quite know what that meant, which made her early life very difficult, to say the least. But she went on to become a prominent author and speaker on both autism and animal behavior – she is a professor of Animal Science at Colorado State University, and HBO made an Emmy Award-winning movie about her life. She was even inducted into the American Academy of Arts and Sciences in 2016. Although all of her books are essential reads for this month, we decided to feature Thinking in Pictures, which chronicles her experiences as both a scientist and an autistic person.

This heart-warming debut novel is written by Helen Hoang, a romance fan, and now author, who was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder in 2016. The Kiss Quotient is a hilarious, charming, and evocative novel about Stella Lane, a thirty-year-old woman who has Asperger’s, is obsessed with math, and struggles to understand intimacy in relationships. Stella makes the decision to get professional help in the romance department, so she hires an escort to show her the ropes. What follows is something that surpasses all of Stella’s expectations – this story serves as a reminder that love can grow and flourish in everyone, even those who don’t quite understand it.

Greta Thunberg has called her Asperger’s syndrome diagnosis a “superpower,” and has been quoted as saying, “When haters go after your looks and differences, it means they have nowhere left to go. And then you know you’re winning!” In No One Is Too Small to Make A Difference readers can read more of Greta’s inspirational quotes all presented here for the first time. Collecting her speeches that have made history across the globe, from the United Nations to Capitol Hill and mass street protests, her book is a rallying cry for why we must all wake up and fight to protect the living planet, no matter how powerless we feel. Our future depends upon it.

In this compelling memoir, Dr. Dawn Prince-Hughes traces her personal growth from undiagnosed autism to the moment when, as a young woman, she entered the Seattle Zoo and immediately became fascinated with the gorillas. Having suffered from a lifelong inability to relate to people in a meaningful way, Dawn was surprised to find herself irresistibly drawn to these great primates. By observing them and, later, working with them, she was finally able to emerge from her solitude and connect to living beings in a way she had never previously experienced.